I agree and thank you for replying. I think about an incredibly lengthy email, outline things he has said and done to “explain” and out him. I always want to prove things, I think it’s from being dismissed and growing up with him never having my back. Ever. The smart side of me tells me that doing this would blow up as he would put tremendous energy into calling me a liar, disproving everything and it makes things worse. It’s hard to have my stepsister, who knows me to be a loving and caring person… especially with my nephews, write me and ask me why I’m hurting this wonderful man so badly.