HI Ravi,

When I wrote “And to me this is very wrong.” by that I meant of the fact that his parents are not ready to look into a solution even. I do respect their belief and even I agreed to that. But the only thing I was saying that at least you should also give a chance for listening to my perspective too. All I wanted him and his family was to atleast try finding out a solution which for a matter of fact there is. And to me only this part was wrong. Nothing more.

And I know I didn’t have to try so hard. Why only me? even he should try to make it work through thick and thin. I have seen many of my friends who had family issues while getting married to the person that they love but eventually both the persons were dead strong enough to stand up for each other. Thats why today they are happily married , about to have kids. This is what saddens me the most that I wish he had stood up for us.

Im trying my best to move on, hopefully I will.

I will for sure . Thanks for the support!

yes even my mum said that too. he is too frustrated and I had warned him about this before.

Honestly, then if a man cannot take a stand about his own life let alone me then what’s he’s gonna do later on.

A general question , don’t you think each individual should stand up for themselves and their partners too no matter what happens and try to fix things?

Hi Anita,

I have never ever shamed him in any way. I have never called him names, even though he was rude to me since January , I never lost my cool. Yes I might have cried and nagged a bit for him to come back, for him to try talking to his parents, for him to take a stand for us but never abused him at all. When he blocked me for first couple times I could not take it and I used to feel sick to my stomach as if I was about to die and because I told him that it might have seemed that I was emotionally blackmailing him but all I said was the truth with utmost respect nothing more.