Hi,

Just give it time, it seems to me that you know what’s been wrong with the relationship the whole time, and you see the faults you’ve made with your relationship. Forgive yourself and give yourself time to heal. You know what to do, you know what went wrong, what you do now is try to move on work on yourself, love yourself more so in your next relationship you wont make the same mistakes again. You are not alone, we all go through this so we can learn and become a better person and a better partner.

Hello StraightNoChaser,

Congratulations on making progress with your professional life. My initial reaction was “NO” since you are in the same work space with this crush, because it might cause awkwardness between you and this guy if he rejects you. After reading through the rest of your letter I’m still going to say no to confessing. First even if he and the Gf has has broken up, he’d still need time to process things and work on himself before moving on to another “relation”, I’m guessing that’s where you want this to end up if ever you confess and he says he likes you too. Now regarding your fear of not getting another chance, I am assuming that you too are friends so you must have each other’s numbers perhaps or you’re FB friends from your statement “sometimes I swear he is into me and I am very sensitive to energies and I can detect tension between us” I think you communicate/interact with each other. So when he’s ready and he realizes he likes you enough to make a move, he’ll make it happen. I suggest you just continue working on yourself for now and continue making progress with your professional life. 🙂