Anita:

For some reason, yes, my ex-husband was a very decent man aswell. My current husband is a fantastic man, too!

I haven’t had any episode (not yet) with a man cheating, or playing games with me.

I’m a very straightforward person, too. I’ve never played games with anybody, and with this man i said right from the beginning that i didn’t felt like “ready” to have a serious plan. In fact, when i met him, we have a nice talk at the bar, and then i said “i have to leave”, and he asked for my cellphone number. I said “no way!”. He asked again. I said no again. Then, i said bye and took my car (i had to carry my drunk friend to the car, and drop her in her place safely). When i was leaving the street, i saw this guy walking down the street, so i asked if he needed a ride to his place (by coincidence, he happened to live really close to my friend’s house – he had told me during our conversation at the bar). So as he was without his car, i dropped him onto his place, and then he said: PLEASE, may i have your number? i’m gonna call you tomorrow. i said: OK OK, i don’t believe you, but there you have it….). I gave my phone number. He called the day after, and we had dinner together.

I mean, when i was out just for fun, i always made it clear to the guys i was hanging out. This guy was certainly a serious guy, and i kind of knew it from the beginning…  never wanted to play with him, too.

Dear Anita,

Thanks for replying 🙂

I do agree with you. And i really believe that it’s all in my imagination (in the real life, we’re not the same anymore).

I just want to break this loop, and stop the bad feelings that come with this memories. It will be great if someday i manage to remember this “golden time” with no regrets, or sadness at all! Just with laughs and plenty of good memories. That’s my current goal, and for the 1st time, i’m considering in getting some professional advice to get there. 🙂 Thanks again!