Thanks, I feel as if I shouldn’t make the effort to talk to them unless I need to, otherwise it’s an invitation for them. I will keep it short if the situation arises
I just feel maybe I have done the damage(maybe that’s why I feel guilty) by ignoring them. I will take your suggestion on board, I just think I’m inviting them back in, if I do that
To be honest I have just been ignoring them and avoid eye contact, but if they speak to me I will always acknowledge them and like you said keep it short
Sorry no, It feels like I may be holding a grudge to other people. What I’m trying to say is that I have forgiven them but don’t want my silence to seem like I’m holding a grudge