Dear Plotinus,

Work has probably been the biggest problem in my life,  so I read with interest your autobiography.   Back in the 1970s I finished my degree in history, but I did it for love as I didn’t want to  be in academia. So I went to law school, but ran out of money and had to leave. So what I decided was a solution that would allow me freedom and flexibility, which I  value highly, was to work full-time temp jobs. I did this for years!  I had a variety of experiences, met new people, and felt much less trapped then I would have if I were doing those same jobs on a permanent basis.

Another thing I did was do volunteer work. That can lead to anything you want…

So those are two suggestions which worked for me at the time and which could allow you to make money and  take the time to explore your options.

And if you don’t have a lover or a partner already,  that is a blessing I would wish on you too – someone to share life’s journey!

Best wishes,

Fern