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  • January 26, 2016 at 6:43 am in reply to: My heart hurts – don't know where else to turn to #93742
    Flower
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    Thanks, Anita! Well said. You bring up good points. You’re spot on about his reaction. Also, his fear of living together in a committed relationship is stronger than his feelings for me at the moment. And I understand why he feels this way. I am coming out of a long marriage. In hindsight – I realize that he’s right, I should give myself time and give this new relationship time to create its foundation. There’s no reason to rush things because things were flowing on their own anyway.

    Honest communication with him is important and we will speak about it.

    Thank you again! 🙂

    January 24, 2016 at 7:33 am in reply to: My heart hurts – don't know where else to turn to #93473
    Flower
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    Thanks, Inky! It’s a good perspective and I didn’t consider what you’ve written.

    My plan was to move to this city regardless of him (I even have job interviews set up, etc..). But I guess I was looking for his blessing by bringing it up to him – which I now realize wasn’t necessary and freaked him out. I won’t mention it again. Lesson learned. I just hope this didn’t ruin things completely.

    Yes, I was in an open marriage when things started with the guy. Interestingly enough, I don’t want anyone else… I want to be monogamous with him.

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