Hi Anita! Yes. I did tell him that I thought I was having feelings for someone else.

We have been married for six or seven years, but together about fifteen.

It has been a physically loveless marriage for sometime. After telling him about my feelings for someone else, there was some intimacy but has been lacking since. I have communicated this lack of intimacy in the past, but things do not change. It all makes me feel a bit lonely or unwanted, but that might just be in my head. I know that he loves me.