Hello Anita,

No i might have projected the words weong, i was more asking about seeking a therapist help after a breakup. I know millions of people get hurt on a daily basis in relationships, that is one of the side affect of being in a relationship and being human.

Thanks for your suggestions i will gladly make a for about healing  and learning because i myself am slowly learning. And if any other readers want to suggest and form a group for open chat i will always be here to support.

So about the commitment issues, i have been living on my own for 3 year of our 5 year relationship. And i had always suggested trying it together, he never said no, but he also never made steps towards it! Till recently when he verbally expressed how those thougbt have never really “sparked him” or interested him even knowing that it would be something that i had alrights to suggest. So he chose to leave the relationship because this was something he couldnt do for me. With pain in my heart i had no choice but to put an end to the relationship because what is a relationship where someone sees no future with you, and just drags you along!

Well this is my current status, moving forward even if my heart is still with a person who sees no future with me. But life is long, and yes experiences are for learning!