hii..

this is not a reply to the above but i am myself in an emotionally stressed situation..

Me and my boyfriend are together for more than six years.. in the beginning he went aborad for job so that he could be able to ask for my hand from my parents. we remain in contact and after 2 years he sent his family with marriage proposal to my parents but my dad refuesd by saying that they do not want to go out of so called “family”.  me and my boyfriend were broken at that that time. he could not come by himself.. and God knows what was happen b/w two families on their meeting day as my parents were afaired of society and people and his parents were not in a mood to talk again.

we remain in contact as we both are in love and can’t imagine our life without each other. he pesonally tried to convice my brother and mother for our marriage but they didn’t agreed. now after 2 years her family fixed his engagement with someone else..whom he says he do’nt even know.. and he said he was forced by his family to get engaged. but the thing is now my dad has changed his opinion about within family marriage and he is ready to do anything for my happiness. and when i asked my boyfriend to convience his parents and tell them thats there is no issue from my side..accoring to him his father say “no chance” and its been two years. he says it is a very long time. and now they decided his engagement and he got engaged. he says he still loves me. but his family and his sisters in lwas are involved and he could not let them be insulted. he says he wants to be with me. but he dont knw they way out. he is forced by the so called family ties and people views about a broken engagement etc etc.. he also told his fiance before their engagement about us and our relation.. she (his fiance ) and her family said to his father that they do not want to do the engagement but God knows how his father, his sister’s in laws again got them agreed and they did that engagement.

now i do not know what to do.. i asked him not to do that engagement but he did..as he said he father is not agreed and its too late now.

what should i do? is being in contact with him would may things better?? i felt so down when i think about what just happen in a month.. i am broken and i dont knw what to say to my family as they are waiting forhim and his family.

does 2 years are far more lengthy than a 6 years relationship?? pls tell me what should i do?? i am in the middle of my career breakthrough and i have lost all of my interests.. i dont knw what am i doing..

He says he loves me so much and on the other hand he is now engaged.

sometimes i think its my fault that i took that much time to convience my dad. and its my families fault that the refuesd first. but should’t i deserve another chance.. is this that too late 🙁

i dont know what to do? without him its nothing coz he has always been loyal to me.. he even told her (fiance) about us and ask her to turndown the engagement. he talk to my family several times but the rejected. i dont want to lose him. he is the best man i hv ever seen.

should i talk to his parents? dont knw what they will think of me.

i dont know what is right and what is wrong in all this.. its too much difficult to be without him .. pls help