hello Mr. Rhino: It sounds to me like you had a one sided relationship. where everything was about the other person and nothing was about you. With what Ive read in your post, I can see that you are hurting and you want her back. But please take it from a person that has been there, you want something that she can never give you. Which is love, respect, appreciation and a life long commitment. Give yourself sometime and then go back and read your post, you will see that everything that you wrote on this post is about her. She does this, she wants this, she needs this. What about you? What are your needs? You cant keep two people away from each other if they want to be together, so no matter what a person is going through, they will stay with you if they really want to. Dont take her excuses of wanting space. Space means that I dont want to be around you. That I rather be by myself than hear anything else you have to say. It means that I dont want to build more on our relationship, that I am cutting ties with you cause I want a different life than I am living now. Its painful, its awful, Im being very blunt, because I dont want you to waste another second on this. Get yourself together. Pray, Cry, talk to someone that will give you an honest answer, go to the gym, go out with your guy friends and forget her and remember yourself. Remember there is a great good woman waiting for you to find her. She will give you all the love, appreciation, and understand. But first get yourself right, mourn this dead end relationship and move on. A good woman is waiting for you!