Hi everyone, thank you so much for all your great advice, it means a lot to me that 3 complete strangers would take their time to help me out.

I’m slowly getting there but then out of the blue I had a text yesterday asking if it was okay for him to stay in my area for his work and then said that if I ever wanted to chat or anything then I can. I’m so confused, why does he want me to talk to him, I don’t understand why after all this time (it’s been nearly 9 weeks!) I think he’s lonely and realised what he’s lost. My heart says call him, my head says stay clear you’ve been hurt by him too much.