have a co worker who is younger than me that when he first started, I did not really give any attention to him. But then, i just notice, he keeps looking for me, follows me and finds me. One day, he asked me what flavor of cupcake I like and he got me a cupcake. Since then, I feel like he getting more comfortable touching me in my back just to let me know he is going home. He has a gf and I have a husband. Lol. What should I do to not get this weird emotions in me? Like, I can’t keep him out of my mind on my days off. And when we work together, I feel energize. Lol. Please tell me how to not let this emotions ruin my marriage. I don’t have kids and m husband and I have been married for 9 yrs. My husband and I had a huge fights yrs back from his emotional affair with his childhood friend he got reconnected. It messed me up but I still forgive him and put another trust.