Thank you very much for your wisdom, Anita! You have really helped me.

It is a huge learning lesson for me to keep sharing my feelings without fear. But, I will continue to push through and share in a compassionate way, like you suggested. And it really helps my perspective to hear that the whole sister thing creates discomfort within you too. I think the main thing that I am troubled over is I never want to look like I’m being jealous or possessive. I have been very careful to notice that the feelings that it creates aren’t those poisonous feelings, it’s more like a discomforted energy that it creates. I just don’t want to make him feel weird, but I am realizing regardless, I MUST listen to my feelings, bc they seriously don’t go away until you respect them.