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  • July 11, 2017 at 2:11 pm in reply to: I made Stupide decision in the past and Today I am paying the price " #157544
    Harold
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    Hi eliana

    you have my gratitude for taking the time to replying and giving in your inputs.

    Note: she had told me in our last meetings that she has become like that because of the past she had which I wasn’t  curious to know. I should probably focus on knowing what was that past that made her become ” the so called Paranoid .

    Thank you for your times, it means a lot to me.

     

    Harold

    July 11, 2017 at 1:51 pm in reply to: I made Stupide decision in the past and Today I am paying the price " #157538
    Harold
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    Hi Pearce,

    please accept my gratitude for your inputs and suggestions which I value so much.

    you have a point here when you said: I also see your repeated efforts to “see” her only to end up with some emotional disturbances that I am sure affect you greatly.  It does affect my happiness, my weekly routine, last Sunday it was terrible. I felt down and felt lonely, I was wanting her attention but she was unavailable. As she said she doesn’t want to get messages every now and then. At my work, every one had noticed that I was not well.

     

    I take all your suggestions into consideration.

    thank you again

     

    Harold

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    July 11, 2017 at 1:44 pm in reply to: I made Stupide decision in the past and Today I am paying the price " #157536
    Harold
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    Hi Inky

    I wanna thank you. As you said “Your best bet is to keep trying, but be patient about it and don’t take things personally. If that is too hard, you should move on.”

    I think for sure I need to be a bit patient and also I need to learn not to take things personally, I tend to blame myself for the past mistakes.

     

    I truly appreciate your inputs.

     

    Harold

     

    February 27, 2017 at 11:41 am in reply to: is it a sign that she still loves me ? #130695
    Harold
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    Hi Nina

    I very much appreciate your direct comments. You have a point. I have to accept the fact that she won’t come back.

    Thank you again for such exact advise I wanted.

    Regards

    Harold

    February 21, 2017 at 1:31 am in reply to: story of my dark night #128629
    Harold
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    Hi all,
    I am wanting concise and practical advice. I have been in 9 months relationships, suddenly my girl friend decided to break up with me.

    It has been a 3 months since she broke up with me. She is now sending me messages at least twice a week to find out how I am doing. I hardly send her message. Last Sunday, I asked her a question: if we were given a chance to fall in love again, would we take it? I would, would you ? She replied : Harold its time for both of us to move on…looking back wishing everything to come is only going to hurt you and you hurting yourself by wanting something that won’t happen and wishing it come back

    Friends is all I want.things won’t be the same. Then discussed a bit.

    I thought, this conversation I had with her will kind of push her away.

    Here she is still sending me messages. I seem not understand her intentions and why can’t she stay away from me as she said it is time for both to move on.

    Your practical comments and advice will be highly appreciated.

    February 21, 2017 at 12:02 am in reply to: Living with an ex…for a bit #128621
    Harold
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    Hi all,
    I am wanting concise and practical advice. I have been in 9 months relationships, suddenly my girl friend decided to break up with me.

    It has been a 3 months since she broke up with me. She is now sending me messages at least twice a week to find out how I am doing. I hardly send her message. Last Sunday, I asked her a question: if we were given a chance to fall in love again, would we take it? I would, would you ? She replied : Harold its time for both of us to move on…looking back wishing everything to come is only going to hurt you and you hurting yourself by wanting something that won’t happen and wishing it come back

    Friends is all I want.things won’t be the same. Then we discussed a bit.

    I thought, this conversation I had with her will kind of push her away.

    Here she is still sending me messages. I seem not understand her intentions and why can’t she stay away from me as she said it is time for both to move on.

    Your practical comments and advices will be highly appreciated.

    Harold

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