Hi Inky,

Thank you so much for your response! He deleted their chats from Instagram and WhatsApp to show me it means nothing to him and that she doesn’t matter to him. Once I was next to him and he was browsing Instagram and her story randomly showed up. I was upset. And he said if it would make me feel better he would unfollow her altogether and he did. From the beginning we had each other’s phone passwords for convenience because we had no trust issues back then. And so I more or less have full access to his phone. But I don’t check it usually because it would be meaningless.

I feel like a sixteen-year-old saying stuff like this. (I am 25 and he is 27 btw) I just want to move past this.

Best,
Giselle