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iamzenParticipantDear Bean,
I find it ironic you said that. A few weeks ago my therapist asked me why was I so interested in being in complicated situations where people are emotionally unavailable. Sometimes it confuses me that I continue to attract these type of people but I believe this is sign that I need to top and look at the energy I am putting out.
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iamzenParticipantAnita,
Thank you, that was a great analogy and It helped me understand my feelings a little better.
iamzenParticipantYeah. I’m sure she will eventually unblock me because she has done all of this before. I often question why are my feelings so strong for this person if I knew nothing would come from the relationship.
but, yes i agree. Long distance relationships aren’t my thing.
iamzenParticipantI am able to talk about everything that happened between us but she isn’t. I’m always open for discussing how I feel but when you have people who avoid their feelings the situation gets complicated.
After i mentioned maybe after some space between us we could possibly be friends again she blocked me from her phone.
My my long distance is going good. I just miss being able to see my gf everyday and that can really be frustrating.
iamzenParticipantI brought it up to her but she was a little dismissive about it. She told me that she doesn’t like talking about What happened between us because it makes it easier to forget and I’m the complete opposite. I’m extremely emotional and need to talk about how I’m feeling to feel better
iamzenParticipantWell, she was my first close friend I made at my current job and now I feel disconnected from work. Im also feeling anxious because I want to reach out to her and ask if we can just be friends again but I doubt that’ll be for the best.
Also, these are a few examples:
One day we were sitting in a conference meeting and she grabbed my hand under the table and held it for a few seconds ( I was completely confused).
In October we attended a business trip and she kissed me which lead to a make out session. But the next day she acted like nothing ever happened between us.
iamzenParticipantAnita,
thank you for your advice. I’m beginning to feel bad about my decision. How do you suggest I deal with feelings of uncertainty?
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