I was married to a man whose mother let me know, at every chance and in every way she could, that she BELIEVED she had not gained a daughter but rather lost a son.
As a result, my advice to every girl I know (AND my own self, too) is as follows:
NEVER marry someone whose family does not love you like one of their own.
How is it that your guy isn’t standing up for you, individually, AND for You, The Couple?????