Hello Elizebeth,

It is understandable to feel the way you do.  Most of us have had similar experiences at some point in our lives and survived.  Letting go is hard, you feel the loss and then you grieve. You might not believe it now, but it is possible to love again and be loved in return.

His being incredibly nice is giving you false hope, but he has professed his love for a woman that he has been living with for almost a year.  He has made his choice, are you prepared to receive an answer that might only hurt you more?

Of course, this is just my opinion, but he has had a year to think about what he really wants.  If he hasn’t expressed doubts by now then he probably never will.  Perhaps, once the divorce is over, it would be best to avoid seeing him as much as possible– as they say out of sight out of mind.  Hide the photos and mementos that remind you of him.  You will get rid of them when you are ready.   Surround your self with positive happy people.   Make a new life for yourself with new friends.  Think of it as an exciting new adventure.