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December 13, 2025 at 3:09 pm #452937
James123ParticipantDear Thomas and Anita,
Please send who you love the most in this forum a thousand dollars.
And face with real internal demon.
İt is not being a liar, because you guys are not even aware that you lie to yourself.
You guys haven’t meet with the devil/you yet. And i am offering to you to meet.
When you are really honest to yourself, you will see the how clever the mind is, and your entire life turn around it.
When death comes, your these squeamish personalities will burn till not even ashes left from you. Surrender before too late.
And believe me, I love you more then anyone loves you. Because, love is not about saying nice words or making feel better, but warning, helping and leading to see devil/mind/you activity.
Peace.
Peace.
December 13, 2025 at 1:55 pm #452934James123ParticipantAnd compassion is:
Telling the Truth, moving with Truth, breathing with Truth, touching with Truth and talking Truth through the Truth.
December 13, 2025 at 1:53 pm #452933James123ParticipantDear Thomas,
Real compassion is not being nice or kind. İt is telling the truth.
İf you are kind to a person that doesn’t need to be kind, that’s lying. İf you say kind word to a person just to make him/her feel better, that’s lying.
Telling to you that you can’t handle the Truth is not insulting but leading.
Just i recommend to you, actually to all to stop these playing house games, but get real.
Many of you here to say kind words or saying ah darling you are so good stuff or heart emojis stiff… But all is a lie. İf anyone ask anyone here to borrow the money, they will never get back to that person.
So, everyone should stop pretending to be good and get real.
Face with the devil within you.
You are your biggest enemy (İmam Gazali).
Break your heart till it opens. (Rumi)
December 13, 2025 at 9:41 am #452925James123ParticipantDear Alessa,
Of course, as long as you are happy.
Much love.
December 13, 2025 at 9:24 am #452924James123ParticipantDear Thomas,
You are so funny 😊 what you are talking about contidional love. İf someone abuse you and you are still with that person that depends on your personality.
What i mean is, loving in any difficulties, within falls and rises. Holding together hand to hand.
But, in Ann situation her boyfriend doesn’t care. So, let her break up. 😊
Encouraging for nice words? For what? Why should I tell the person for only in that moment to feel good, but will make endlessly suffer in future?
Life is not a lollipop. And you are one of the person that can not handle the truth, life wise and spiritual wise.
When you break up that you are free my brother.
Peace.
December 12, 2025 at 11:50 pm #452912James123ParticipantDear Thomas,
Love is whatever happens still being with that person and supporting no matter what.
However, in Ann situation this is not the case.
Peace.
December 12, 2025 at 11:01 am #452897James123ParticipantDear Peter,
Much love to you and all community
Peace.
December 11, 2025 at 9:50 pm #452875James123ParticipantDear Ann,
You don’t understand your boyfriend and your boyfriend doesn’t understand you.
You are not a perfect match to him, he is not a perfect match to you.
You are a very sensitive person, he is not.
Just break up. Feel hurt couple weeks, then inevatibly you will forget.
Peace.
December 11, 2025 at 11:46 am #452856James123ParticipantDear Alessa,
You are welcome.
You seem so attached with any amusement.
But, what i say about religion, many people stuck with main stream religion and never understand what real religion is. Because, people never try to really understand the religion, they are mostly in judgement, spend time trying to understand over the tv or listen some people and try to make out of it.
Actually, that’s not the case. When one really dedicate to understand religion, but deeply, not as i am Muslim, christian, Hindu etc… But deeply try to understand the Truth, one slowly understand that nothing is under his/her control.
That’s when complete surrendering comes from, real Spirituality or religion comes from or ego/self dissolves from or where the mind chattering ends from.
Then you realize that your all past about abusement, your worries about your child etc… are nothing but just an attachment with mind chattering. Past and future only belongs to thoughts, and all what You have is this moment, right now. And that’s only when you can smell the roses and truly first time see your child what he/she really is.
Therefore, seeing everything as God, therefore seeing your child has no differences than a tree and they are all from same source is inevitable.
And that’s biggest gift your child and humanity.
December 9, 2025 at 11:57 am #452787James123ParticipantDear Alessa,
Body and mind works together.
Sure. Do what is right for you to do.
However, By placing even more emphasis on your child, you could cause unnecessary worry or disrupt their balance.
In my opinion, the most important thing a child can receive is faith in God and the knowledge that everything comes from God (good and bad).
Once they understand these, they won’t need you emotionally. Whatever you do, provide them with a good education tailored to today’s circumstances, ensure their success, and build their confidence.
However, there will be a day when your child will fail, a day when their pride will be wounded, and a day when they will face death.
Therefore, the upbringing you provide is wonderful, but only up to a certain point; after that, it’s inadequate.
If you really want your child to stand strong in life, the most crucial point is to first teach them that there is a higher power, that this power can create or destroy without regardless of one’s expectations, and that people, money, and success come and go, therefore temporary, but that higher power is eternal. But not to rely on any priest or guru etc… rely directly on God itself.
With this way, not your but your child’s all worries will vanish. Many people dismiss the Truth and thinking that controlling or taking care on their hand. Yet, if you are ill, even smallest molecule in your body stop working, you can do none. Therefore, the core of controlling or taking caring your child doesn’t come from you.
People often only see the surface, not the deeper layers. Once you’ve seen enough of the deep, you won’t even understand how coordinated your hand moves are. You’ll see that even getting out of bed every day is a blessing. I think teaching your child these things, like visiting hospitals once a week, showing them to the poor, etc. Your child will soar with gratitude, and it will benefit not only themselves but all of humanity.
December 8, 2025 at 1:02 pm #452750James123ParticipantDear Alessa,
I mean, how many molecules in your child body properly work because of you? Some people have strong personality some people have weak personality after the traumas. Did you be able to build your child personality I the correct way?
Truth is it is not your child that feel safe, it is you that feel safe according to your programing conditions.
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December 7, 2025 at 11:51 am #452698James123ParticipantDear Alessa,
When you understand that you actually never did protect your child, your suffering will end.
Best Regards,
December 6, 2025 at 11:34 pm #452687James123ParticipantDear Alessa,
That’s when appreciation comes.
If I had even the slightest female illness, you wouldn’t have a child. If your ears didn’t hear, you wouldn’t hear the cries. If your eyes didn’t see, you wouldn’t see the pain. Be grateful for this, even when you see the pain, put your trust in God.
If there was no evil, there would be no meaning to goodness. You may be sad, but rebelling is belongs to ego.
What you have now is giving you as gift, including tears, emotions etc…
Be thankful and help who needs.
December 6, 2025 at 11:50 am #452669James123ParticipantDear Alessa,
From your example of war, expectations is way deeper than anyone can imagine.
When there is no right or no wrong for you (personally) that’s when expectations end.
Everything is already what it is supposed to be. Therefore, when I talk to you, Anita, Thomas or many others, it is just talking in purest form, which is pure beauty. Yet, I don’t have any intention to change anything or be something, yet I just talk.
If you ask, why don’t be quite if everything is already supposed to be, it is because trying to not to talk or be silent or anything that force the body and mind belongs to control, action and effort. These are all play of the ego.
Therefore, one needs let the body go and body will speak when necessary or be quiet when necessary. You don’t play any role anymore.
And that’s the end of suffering.
December 6, 2025 at 7:34 am #452657James123ParticipantDear Alessa,
You actually never suffer, but with having expectations you create your own suffering,
The person loses a loved one and suffer because of that or a woman can’t have a baby and suffer because of that or having a illness or not being rich etc…
Have you ever think the cause of your suffering? If you do, you will realize that it is based on only expectations.
Therefore, suffering is based on images. Yet, if one deeply digested that appearances are different yet the essence is always same, never dies, never changes then expectations and suffering ends.
When Buddha said life is suffering, he actually did not mean as being alive, but being identity with body and mind, and dismissing the essence.
When one deeply knows that what he/she truly is, body stay as appearance yet so called soul is home.
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