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October 31, 2025 at 9:34 am #451427
James123ParticipantDear Anita,
İ am sorry to interrupt your conversation with Peter.
İ would like to add one more thing.
Drop the Anita, who is trying to understand non duality.
And see (actually not see) BE the LOVE.
MUCH LOVE,
Best Regards,
October 28, 2025 at 1:29 pm #451326
James123ParticipantDear Anita,
Ego is so sneaky. Even working on non duality or trying to see trough the illusion is the play of ego.
Because, there is an expectation such as i will drop the ego and see trough the illusion.
Attachment to ego is attachment to expectations. Good or bad. Doesn’t matter.
When one completely drops all the expectations, including enlightenment etc… The one dies.
And what remains is already pure beauty.
Ego = Action, Truth / what You really are = Effortlessness.
That’s why i say, all spiritual feel good or share the love stuff based on ego And fuel the ego.
As I said before, one can work on self improvement or spiritual feel good stuff, yet with one bad news, one life’s back to misery again.
Ego is suffering.
What You really are is already here. Closer than your jugular vein.
Begin with being aware of the thoughts every moment. When everything comes so much to you, say o God, I love you more then myself, this body belongs to you, and I give it back to you.
İf you do this, day by day there will be less you / separation. And when separation completely dissolves there will be no one to contemplate or speak or learn or work on or expect about non duality.
And that’s what non duality is, genuinely not knowing.
Best Regards,
October 28, 2025 at 2:49 am #451304
James123ParticipantDear Anita,
The ego is not necessary to function. it is the reason of separation.
Only way to be in love is surrendering the ego not suppressing.
Beautiful thoughts about love is limited.
When ego is gone, one realizes that now is already pure beauty. There is no need to change anything.
Best Regards,
October 18, 2025 at 5:58 am #451034
James123ParticipantDear Tee,
Humans are virus meaning is not as body, but as who thinks they are separate then other things.
Moreover, doctor can save a pet yet and kill it at the same time, like animals. Such as, cat can Save a kid from attack of dog, yet crocodile or shark can kill a human being.
That’s why realization is important, body and mind are one with universe. İf there is no water, body dies, if there is no air body dies, etc…
October 18, 2025 at 3:24 am #451028
James123ParticipantDear Tee,
That’s totally so called ego.
You are not the body nor mind.
You are the one that experiences body and mind. Yet, not in control. Being on control is the biggest illusion itself.
When you say “there is an animal, and can’t think yet we think”, that’s how human being is corrupt.
None of animals destroy the nature, they just flow with the moment, yet human beings are famous with destruction, because they “think ” they are special. Yet, they are like virus, just multiple and multiple consume the habitant, and when it’s done move to another habitant. That’s what the devil is.
The body has no differences than a dog, cat or mosquito.
When you realize you are not special, body comes into peace. And that’s the only way to save humanity or world.
Best Regards,
October 17, 2025 at 3:48 pm #451015
James123ParticipantDear Anita,
When you “wish” that mean is, there is an expectation, which belongs to ego / attachment.
But, everything is already what it is supposed to be.
And that doesn’t mean don’t care whatever happens or do care whatever happens.
That’s actually meaning is simply act in moment.
İf there is a striving, help. But do not imagine the striving. İf you are hurt in moment, feel the pain, yet do not imagine the pain, which will come at future or was at past.
Past and future are just an imagination. What only real is Now.
October 17, 2025 at 12:57 pm #451010
James123ParticipantDear Tee,
Actually, any striving (, including word of enlightenment), belief on escaping belongs to attachment to self.
Yet, there is a self / mind which has perfect function with body. However, it is not You. You are what anything and everything arises and falls.
İt is not about not making decision, it is all about surrendering the one who makes decision or doesn’t make decision.
Dear Anita,
Body is not independent. İf there is no water, no air, sun, gravity etc… İt can’t live. So actually, everything works all together with perfect harmony.
October 15, 2025 at 10:44 pm #450966
James123ParticipantDear Thomas,
Exactly 💯 but even knowing this makes one closer to realization or ego death.
Because, as much as one get closer to Truth inevatibly one dies.
And rest is pure beauty.
And most important thing to understand is, death is not something scary, it is absolutely beautiful.
Scary for ego yet pure beauty for Truth.
October 15, 2025 at 1:50 pm #450953
James123ParticipantHi Tee and Thomas,
Just be witness, till witness dissolves.
Trying to not attached to thoughts creates more attachment. Simply be witness, let thoughts, universe, feelings, motions arises and falls. Only then, the witness dissolves.
And You realize that You have never move nor began. Universe is happening through You.
When body dies, You are same, as before physical birth. Untouched, unmoved.
Just life is happening now, yet You are not the player, only the watcher, not even.
October 14, 2025 at 2:52 pm #450914
James123ParticipantDear Peter,
Krishnamurti and I only point out to non attachment to thoughts. Therefore, they disseappears inevitably and becomes a tool for body to function. Such As heart or liver.
Then, the thoughts stop being our identity.
If there is no attachment to thoughts, what remains? 😊
It is impossible to men to know what he thinks he already knows.
Best Regards,
October 14, 2025 at 12:47 pm #450911
James123ParticipantMy Dear Friends,
To find out actually what takes place when you die you must die.
This isn’t a joke. You must die – not physically but psychologically, inwardly, die to the things you have cherished and to the things you are bitter about.
If you have died to one of your pleasures, the smallest or the greatest, naturally, without any
enforcement or argument, then you will know what it means to die.To die is to have a mind that is completely empty of itself, empty of its daily longing, pleasure; and agonies.
Death is a renewal, a mutation, in which thought does not function at all because thought
is old.When there is death there is something totally new.
Freedom from the known is death, and then You are truly living.
Jiddu Krishnamurti
If you don’t die now, life is going to be suck. Because, it doesn’t work according to your expectations. It has it’s own flow.
What you trying to do is swimming towards to wave.
Die now, and don’t waste the life and love.
This is the first and last life, big lottery.
Surrender now, because even you run away, death is soon, sooner than you can even imagine. And entire life will be wasted. And no returning back.
Die to live fully, freely. Even smell of roses will be completely different. Because, there will no bridge that who / you smell the roses.
Because, You are already.
Best Regards,
October 13, 2025 at 8:20 am #450876
James123ParticipantDear Thomas,
When you couldn’t find, actually it is not death, it is so called recognition of there is no birth nor death.
If you get into these, there is no such thing as birth, death, life, soul, exist or not existed.
It is all the mind game.
If there is a you, that’s suffering, and which is illusion.
There is no me nor my spirituality.
Being spiritual is the most funny thing that to be heard.
Good luck. Stay suffer.
October 12, 2025 at 11:06 am #450843
James123ParticipantDear Thomas,
Please find the i or soul in the body.
October 11, 2025 at 9:08 pm #450827
James123ParticipantBefore enlightenment chopping wood and carrying water does by you, and after does by body.
“So, if there is nothing there them why do I feel hurt??” Who ask this?
October 11, 2025 at 10:53 am #450813
James123ParticipantDear Thomas,
You asked “why am I suffering”.
And i answered you. That’s all.
Dear Anita,
İt is already. 😊
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