Dear Tee,

The reason why I am saying money is, money is crucial point of all society. Real love only appears when one needs share most important part of her or him to help.

I definitely doesn’t agree. Every baby come to this world as pure. If you blame to parents that’s wrong, because they came to this world as innocent too. So let blame them parents, but they came to this world innocent too.

Therefore, making the world better doesn’t start from family, environment etc… it starts and lies within Truth.

What do you think real love or unconditional love is, only loving your family? No. It is caring entire peace of planet as you.

This forum is called tiny Buddha. But it seems like a place where only daily relations or regular human drama sharing place.

So, there is no need for me to be here.

Good luck everyone.

Stay with love.

Peace.

Dear Thomas, Anita and all others,

People speak of heaven and hell as if they exist somewhere after death. The Bible says: “The kingdom of God is within you” (Luke 17:21), and yet people look outside, to clouds, to graves, to somewhere beyond. The Qur’an says: “He will burn in hell who dies with arrogance and ego in his heart” (4:37, 21:98). And still, religions present heaven and hell as distant, as afterlife. Because the mind refuses to take truth seriously while alive.

This is the secret of religion: heaven and hell are promised after death to awaken you, to scare you, to inspire surrender. The mind is lazy, the ego clings to power, to importance, to illusions. So religion says, “Do this now, or burn later; be good, or be rewarded later.” But listen carefully: there is no afterlife. Only now exists. Only this life exists.

If you die with ego, the Qur’an says you burn, not because God punishes you, not because someone outside is angry, but because ego itself cannot survive the fire of reality. Ego is combustible, fragile, illusory. At the moment of physical death, the body and mind fall away, and ego meets the ultimate truth: it is nothing. It combusts, it vanishes. You burn only because of you, your clinging, your separateness. God is not the executioner; God is silent, ever-present, always free.

Heaven and hell are states of consciousness, not places somewhere else. Anger, greed, fear, control, statues, that is hell. Love, awareness, surrender, that is heaven. Both are happening now.

Look at your body. Look at your hands, your eyes, your lungs, your heartbeat. Once nothing, now a miracle. From nothing, you are alive, aware, conscious. Do you see it?

Every breath is heaven. Every fear is hell. Heaven and hell are words, stories, warnings, not geography. Life itself is the teacher, and every moment is the lesson.

The Bible points to the same secret: “What you have done to the least of these, you have done to me” (Matthew 25:40). Look inward: what you do, how you love, how you hate, heaven and hell are here, not after death. The Qur’an says: “We are closer to you than your jugular vein” (50:16). The Self, the Being, is closer than thought, closer than ego. Yet you run, you hope, you plan, you fear.

Drop the ego. Drop fear. Drop the illusion of importance. Dance! Laugh! Play! Life is happening through you, not by you. From nothing, you arose. From nothing, a hand, a heart, a mind, what a miracle. And yet you worry about afterlife? No! The first and the last life is now.

Burn in awareness while alive. Love while alive. The real fire is within, the real paradise is within. Heaven and hell are stories told for awakening. The moment you drop ego, heaven is here, hell vanishes, and the miracle of Being shines.

Silence. Laughter. Freedom. This is life. This is the first. This is the last.

Therefore, evil is you. You ask why god creates suffering, god doesn’t create suffering, you do. You cling to something that you don’t own, which is the body and mind. Therefore, evil is you, all selfishness, judgement, anger, fear arises as you for loosing the pleasure of the body and mind. Including your family. You claim to own the body and mind therefore related one’s as family, friends etc…

So, god is not in the sky that waiting for you to punish. But, the Truth that you will face with death that body and mind are never yours or never you. Therefore, with death not even ashes will be left from you.

I love you more than even your family. Because, I am against all you to respect me, support me, telling nic words to be on my side or agreeing me.

All i offer you to Truth.

That’s all.

And hurts.

Peace.

And compassion is:

Telling the Truth, moving with Truth, breathing with Truth, touching with Truth and talking Truth through the Truth.

Dear Thomas,

Love is whatever happens still being with that person and supporting no matter what.

However, in Ann situation this is not the case.

Peace.

Dear Ann,

You don’t understand your boyfriend and your boyfriend doesn’t understand you.

You are not a perfect match to him, he is not a perfect match to you.

You are a very sensitive person, he is not.

Just break up. Feel hurt couple weeks, then inevatibly you will forget.

Peace.