Hey Peter.
Thank youvery much. Anytime.
Desire, expectation, and wanting belong to the ego, which is nothing but an accumulation of thoughts. Nirvana is simply the dropping of all of them.
When this happens, only pure consciousness remains, just as before physical birth, in deep sleep, or after death.
In this recognition, it becomes clear that nothing has ever truly happened.
Yet the body and universe still appear. If the leg breaks, there is pain, but it belongs to no one—therefore, there is no suffering. The body is a perfectly functioning system: the breath flows on its own, the heart beats on its own, and the mind is astonishingly intelligent. All these systems harmonize effortlessly, with no need for interference.
Thus, consciousness, what you truly are—simply watches life through the body, like watching a film, knowing that the film itself is also made of consciousness.
Stillness is the absence of mental chatter—the ever-present silence, untouched and eternal.
Therefore, Stillness is the end of grasping. Grasping means reaching, clinging, holding to thought, desire, fear, or hope. When the grasp relaxes, mind becomes quiet, like an open hand.