Dear Alessa,

Body and mind works together.

Sure. Do what is right for you to do.

However, By placing even more emphasis on your child, you could cause unnecessary worry or disrupt their balance.

In my opinion, the most important thing a child can receive is faith in God and the knowledge that everything comes from God (good and bad).

Once they understand these, they won’t need you emotionally. Whatever you do, provide them with a good education tailored to today’s circumstances, ensure their success, and build their confidence.

However, there will be a day when your child will fail, a day when their pride will be wounded, and a day when they will face death.

Therefore, the upbringing you provide is wonderful, but only up to a certain point; after that, it’s inadequate.

If you really want your child to stand strong in life, the most crucial point is to first teach them that there is a higher power, that this power can create or destroy without regardless of one’s expectations, and that people, money, and success come and go, therefore temporary, but that higher power is eternal. But not to rely on any priest or guru etc… rely directly on God itself.

With this way, not your but your child’s all worries will vanish. Many people dismiss the Truth and thinking that controlling or taking care on their hand. Yet, if you are ill, even smallest molecule in your body stop working, you can do none. Therefore, the core of controlling or taking caring your child doesn’t come from you.

People often only see the surface, not the deeper layers. Once you’ve seen enough of the deep, you won’t even understand how coordinated your hand moves are. You’ll see that even getting out of bed every day is a blessing. I think teaching your child these things, like visiting hospitals once a week, showing them to the poor, etc. Your child will soar with gratitude, and it will benefit not only themselves but all of humanity.

Dear Alessa,

When you understand that you actually never did protect your child, your suffering will end.

Best Regards,

Dear Alessa,

From your example of war, expectations is way deeper than anyone can imagine.

When there is no right or no wrong for you (personally) that’s when expectations end.

Everything is already what it is supposed to be. Therefore, when I talk to you, Anita, Thomas or many others, it is just talking in purest form, which is pure beauty. Yet, I don’t have any intention to change anything or be something, yet I just talk.

If you ask, why don’t be quite if everything is already supposed to be, it is because trying to not to talk or be silent or anything that force the body and mind belongs to control, action and effort. These are all play of the ego.

Therefore, one needs let the body go and body will speak when necessary or be quiet when necessary. You don’t play any role anymore.

And that’s the end of suffering.

Dear Anita,

İ am here to always help.

Only, sometimes people here something that they don’t want to hear, yet, the words are on their sake.

The bird can not stop the bullet with it’s chest.

Peace.