Mike thank you and I totally agree with you that I shouldn’t settle for less but deep down I know I love him and I know he loves me I think we can make it work if he is willing to try for the sake of the kids and I have to say that after I started the fling with the other guy he sensed it and was more closer to me and gave me more attention than I expected and that is when I ended things with the other guy to give my relationship another try, we was doing good and that is when someone told him everything and he left the house without talking to me or anything, the thing is I don’t know what they told him and what was said and he wont tell me. I’m very close to his family and I feel like they all hate me right now for what was done. I just want to get my family back and do what it takes to make it work and I feel like I have lost that opportunity. Deep down I have the believe that he will come back but in my mind is telling me that I have lost him. I’m confused I want to give him time and again I don’t know how because if I don’t text him he will text me saying something about our son.