Hi,

I just joined your sight and have been reading up on relationships. I recently met someone and they live in an other state. I spent a few days with him and than he left to go back home. We kept in touch he was initiating all the calls and texts i was just responding to them. At Christmas he wished me a Merry Christmas and sent me a video of his day with his family and a picture of his three kids with their name below the caption. A few days later he asked me to spend New Years Eve with him. We ended up spending New Years Eve and the next four days together out of town. After coming back from our trip he would either by phone or text let me know what was going on in his life. I know he has 3 kids and several business that and he does a lot of travel for and he said that it would be crazy when he got back. He stopped calling as much and not texting me as much. He had called and apologized for not calling and said he would call me back later and never did and this happened a couple more times. He was in New York on a business and called and spoke to him and he said he would call me when he got back the next day (this was either the second or 3rd time he did not call back) and he did not so the following morning I sent him a text message (I know that was not the right way to handle it but at the time I reacted) and let him know that I did not appreciate him being disrespectful and that I treat people the way I want to be treated that I do wish him well. He sent me a text back that he was not being disrespectful to me or dishonest and would call me later. A few minutes later he called but I was at work and not able to take the call and he left me a msg. stating that he would appreciated me calling instead of texting him those things (he is absolutely right) and that he had told me the night he was in New York that he had stuff with his son to deal with when he got back and that maybe he is just not ready for this than he says that he wants to be friends and still do things together and that he is not sure what I am feeling or what my expectations were and than back to maybe he needs to focus on the things he needs to and not do this. I tried calling him the day after he left me this msg. and he did not answer left him a msg to call me when he got a chance that I was not able to talk at work and was headed out with friends after that. When I got to where I was going the following day (since I did not hear back from him) I sent him a text explaining to him about the phone calls that was this issue and I found it very disrespectful and not something that was acceptable behavior to me. I am feeling regret that I handled it so badly and did not call him the same day and that I sent him a text instead of a phone call. I have not heard from him since January 30 when he left me a msg. and he never responded to my phone call the following day or my text. Should I just let this go and move on and learn from my mistake??????? or do I call and leave him a msg. apologizing for texting instead of calling. I really do like him and enjoyed being with him. Not sure why I feel so upset over all of this!!!