POPI

What you need to do is cut these negative people out of your life. I am an HSP person and have tried so hard all my life to manage my own expectations and others. Now that I am 42… I have finally realized it was all a huge waste of time a big joke on me. Most everyone in this world just demands things from us and everyone around them… When was the last time you heard someone around you thinking about what they were asking of someone else as a problem… Probably never… Everyone is about themselves, their desires… You are probably like me feeling guilty about not being nice… Well I have to tell you I have been doing that for fourty years and it’s gotten me no where… I am no better off than the guy that doesn’t care if he makes people mad or not. My single parent sister pushes her kid on me constantly and her and my mom make me feel bad when I don’t want to take care of the kid all day long… It’s all the same thing… It’s rude ignorant people taking advantage of US! POPI – tell these people to go to hell! They don’t respect us and push us all the time – we are sensitive and nice and helpful and all they do is crap on us. We need to fight back – protect yourself and unlearn – the thoughts that make you feel guilty. We are good people that are being abused by selfish people. Fight back be assertive and tell these rude family members to get off our backs! If you don’t feel good about #1 how can you help anyone else. That’s my new view – get the hell out of my face unless you going to be nice to me… My time is valuable and back the hell off unless you are going to be kind to me. Most people are just pushing us around using us because we are nice. Enough is enough, back off, and cut them off, they can deal with their own filth without you. You have to do what you do to protect yourself – you need to look out for #1 – don’t feel guilty – protect yourself because they are vampires and will demand more and more of you because they are weak people.

Sincerely,
Matt