Hey Elle,

Your story actually hit me pretty hard . Actually I was the one who got broken up with . Not be confronted or by a text . I was straight up ghosted . We dated for 6 months & you could say I was the rebound but she wasn’t really looking for someone in the moment but she found me & very liked me. I was really good to her & always made her happy for the first 5 months . She was really happy with me & say things like “I haven’t laughed & smiled like this in a long time “ The ghosting is definitely feelings so much guilt & Shame. Last month I could say I got needy & saw all the signs of less texting & less conversations . She confesses to me she has depression & numbness etc.  She would tell me all her ex’s has cheated on her but now it looks like I’m the only one who hasn’t . She would tell me we were friends at well but it looks like how she treated me doesn’t feel like we are . Sometimes people need space & time to reflect . She will remember all the great memories we had & all the things I did for her . Thank you for your post & no longer putting her on a pedestal because I know my worth & value . My heart breaks for her because she has no idea who she lost & wont find someone like me who actually loved & cared for her .

-Josh