Sorry, I didn’t want to make it too long so no one would read it, thank you by the way for reading it. The first 2 years were great we really great. I was completely sober 4 months into our relationship and am to this day. It’s a very dark place I never want to go back to, it’s worse than the pain I feel now. So, I’m sober life is good. 1 year into our relationship and she tells meshe  wants to quit her job and work for me full time doing my books,  making appointments, getting quotes out, and taking my incoming calls. I was hesitant because I always did this on my own and have a system, primitive but, still a system that is successful. She was very passionate about wanting to help me so, I said ok. As expected I knew I would spend a lot of time training her but, it was ok and it made her happy. I told her we need to keep business business and personal personal which we did for the most part. After about a year of this. It became more of a burden on me then help. She saw this too and said if it was too much she can always look for another job. I was honest and told her I think that would be best but, for her to not worry if she can’t find a job right away. 1 year goes by and she still did not find a job, I was fine with this because she took care of the domestic side I got the financial side. Our relationship was good no changes we went out quite a bit, weekend trips. I don’t know when and it seemed all of a sudden I had no clean clothes we were going out every night to eat, I was spending a lot more time cleaning up. I ask if everythings ok with her, she’s discouraged about not being able to find a good job she doesn’t like the domestic life. So i try to help her look and a couple of opportunities she passes on because they don’t pay what I paid her. I tried telling her she needs to get in somewhere then work her way up to the pay she feels she deserves. When I met her she was a server at a local bar and that is what she has done for work experience.   So now we would often argue over petty things. We still loved being with each other but, the arguments were more and more frequent. I was in the position to buy a house so she actually found it and that’s when we decided to try the relationship not living together. I moved into the new house and she moved in with her mother, where she was living when we met.

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