We were together a little over a year. I know that he is grieving as well. I sent him an email telling him how I feel, he says that he did see us as a family and then changed the subject to how he has online learning things he has to get done before he leaves and I’m busy at school and taking care of my children and that is why he’s ending it now. Because we’re too busy. My 16 yr old daughter talked to him about seeing me until he leaves, but he said he couldn’t do that to me.

My thinking is I would rather have these 3 months of seeing each other when we can as opposed to knowing it’s possible and choosing not to. So, I don’t understand the “do that to her” part.