hey ,, i am 29 years old reisiding in some asian country . well i have never fallen in love till my 27 yrs of my age , although i have been with girls . but i met this gal on 31 jan 2012 and this was the sight that made me believe she is gonna be my future partener . i really did everything ,flew many times as this was long distance relationshi and didnt even consider about money or any absurd thing which may hurt her . i disclosed everthing to her , my passwords , my parents no , my address , wanted her to meet my parents but somehow there was never a lead from her side .i shared everything but she never . she did not rec my calls in night . leave me in total confusion waiting for her calls . when trying sometimes she was busy on other calls .i dont know she never took me seriously . i on other hand was willing to get married with her and start a beautiful life . she was intolerant for me . she never wanted a kid , i agreed . she wanted me to quit army , i agreed . she wanted me to do everything and i agreed . all i tried that she will understand our love . she was highly ambitious .her parents said no to me as i was of other caste . she once told me that she loves me and she is ambitious . whenever we try for anything that we will get married in court she pulls herself away . i must have given her atleast 12 chances . even with my parents brainwash and engagement occured to me with some other girl. i broke it sun as i cant handled it this way . but believe me till today this girl the one i loved still wants time . she is 24 yrs old and she goes out with someone without informing me . she has been eating my head in all this time . i dont know when it comes to maariiage then she is scared of .she never talks to my parents nor she does anything anything to believe them or me that she wants to get married . all she wanted was to raom around with me , think about her professional life , her ambition . i agreed to everything that things will be simler and i will support her for career . let me tell you that i keep thinking about it and it has been killing me from inside . i have not met her for last one year . i have not spoken to her for last one month . everytime i try to solve with this problem . she never never never did anything for us to be together . idont know and i m unable to make her understand a bout it . she needs time and time for what to see north pole ,south pole . i have been sufferring like anything and she has no value to my feelings or to my parents feelings . my parents faced a lot because of me and i dont know how to overcome her . plz guide me and lz help . i know that i am hypersensitive or hyer reacting over it . i dont want to sound weak but i am really helpless .i dont have any friend also to discus about it .