Thank you again for the advice guys and i actually ended up letting her know how i regret not moving further and wished i had at least given us a shot. She asked me why and i explained again and she wants to just be friends. Thats what i was hoping for; an answer to not knowing where exactly we were going. So my situation is complete. thank you for everyones advice and help.
One thing im curious about is why she would still invite me to her party when she wasn’t talking to me for a week or so before the party and hasn’t talked to me since the party. It was a small party of 5 ppl as well so we were in the same room doing the same stuff together. I thought she maybe wanted to be friends but like i said she hasn’t said a word to me. Im thinking if she does want to be friends she’s trying to let our breakup be in the past and have the both of us past it.
yeah i clearly explained that it was because i was having some anxiety at first and i didn’t want to begin a relationship if that was how i was feeling at the time. I did not want to get into something when i could’ve had the power to end it earlier on to avoid any troubles. Although in hindsight, i feel like i should’ve given this a shot, cause the more i think about it, the more it seems like i really could’ve enjoyed myself. I honestly didn’t give that solid of a reason other than i felt like something “could go wrong”. As you said i can use this experience to communicate better with the next woman; when calm and when anxious.
In all honestly it did help. The conclusion is the same no matter how i think about. That is the fact that i made a decision to let this chance go and there nothing to be done after that. Thank you for the advice
Was good to hear from a second voice on the topic.
If anything i can use this experience in the future.
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