I guarantee you there are loveable qualities you have. Loveliness is much more than just physical appearance. The physical appearance is just wrapping paper and the right person for you, will see those loveable qualities……seriously. Some people who are very attractive and charming on the outside can be not very beautiful on the inside. You might want to talk to a professional about breaking out of the cocoon. The right person will step up at some point. I would try and hang around people who make you feel good. If you need more of those types of people in your life, try and seek them out in safe environments.

I had a friend who would often go after the guy I was with when I was dating him. Some of the men I was around, didn’t pay much attention to her, but the one I liked the most (who wasn’t that into me), was mesmerized by her flirting and fell for her. This is someone I had dated for a couple of years (too long). So…now they are together…(she is still married) and I decided I will not be her friend any longer because of this aggressive behavior. I feel good for dropping this friendship and the guy as well. I don’t wish either of them will but don’t want to be around anyone who only looks after their own gain with disregard for a friendship, etc. I feel there is definitely someone else out there for me.