I agree with you that a true friend does not put you down, maipulate, use, or disrespect you. Did you tell him that his comment upset you? In my opinion, if you find this friendship emotionally draining then it isn’t worth it.
On the other hand, sometimes we can take things the wrong way. I’m saying this because I have done it before. If I were you-and if this friendship meant a lot to me, I would discuss exactly how I’m feeling and then see how he feels and what he has to say.
Remember, “Only surround yourself with those who are going to lift you higher.” -Oprah
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