Dear Teamoi,

People put those around them in certain roles and that is how they order their worlds. when someone makes changes and decides to step outside that framework, the people around them can seem negative or can ignore or minimise what to you is a big, important and positive change. They don’t want you to change because it means that they will have to accommodate that change. Continue with becoming the wonderful person you are and fulfilling their potential and brush of their “I know you” with a “You know how I used to be”.

You don’t have to prove your changes to anyone. You only have to live your life honestly and follow your own path. It may be uncomfortable for a while and frustrating for both you and those around you. The one’s who love you will let you fly, the one’s who don’t will let you go. xxx