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  • October 29, 2017 at 11:18 am in reply to: Recovering from the realization I was not so special to him #175459
    Dolores
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    Thank you Anita,

    I wish that as well. I am not into messing up with people who are so committed and involved with others, even if its only in this long distance way. So, I keep contact rare  now. It helps a lot and soon i will have forgotten the intensity of this story. He also understood that I am not planning to stick around and he is not pursuing much either. This helps also! 😉

     

    warm regards

     

    October 29, 2017 at 10:12 am in reply to: Recovering from the realization I was not so special to him #175443
    Dolores
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    Hi Inky,

     

    Yes you are very correct! Indeed, there is a strong element of fantasy there. Keeping it real is the smart thing to do. However, the pain feels reals, no matter that, I do now have a healthy perspective. I did not lose much in reality but I still cannot stop missing this romance. I wish I had better control of my thoughts.

     

    thank you both girls, Anita and Inky for your replies

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    October 29, 2017 at 10:09 am in reply to: Recovering from the realization I was not so special to him #175441
    Dolores
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    Hi Anita,

     

    I was not angry but disappointed and it surprised me. I told him that he should have told me that earlier, so I also know where I stand. He answered that how could I expect that he wouldn’t have a full life in his country. I just answered that the way he talks about his life and  the way he behaves towards me implied that. This discussion happened in a soft and gentle way. However, as I said, I just feel that I was more special to him that I am and it hurts.

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    June 28, 2014 at 5:09 am in reply to: i feel i dont deserve happiness #59810
    Dolores
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    Thank you Jasmine!

    You are so right! There are so many positive things taking place in my life.. i live in a beautiful city, my family loves me a lot, i am studying for my second masters, i am working in an intresting but unstable job ( which i am pursuing) … i just feel afraid to leave my partner who i dont love, i treat him poorly and then I am ashamed of it , and he pretends he doesnt notice…i practice martial arts, i dance …
    i will try to turn my life around for the better…

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