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  • June 7, 2016 at 8:05 am #106667
    Lorissa
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    PS I too do not know why your post was flagged inappropriate. I am just coming back to the forum now (today) and just read it. I am glad you posted it.

    June 7, 2016 at 8:03 am #106664
    Lorissa
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    Thanks Laura. I appreciate your words. Your right, I have never felt a “true love” attachment with anyone I have dated. Except for my very very first boyfriend when I was 16. Everyone else as been a relationship that is more like a partnership – never truly becoming one so I was and am shocked as to why I am so fixated with this man.

    I too have scoured the internet (amazing how many people have similar situations – that actually does help to know I am not alone in these feelings).

    I will read over the articles you posted

    June 3, 2016 at 7:39 pm #106435
    Lorissa
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    I do not know if I have been afraid to get attached, it is just a fact I have not. With him, I did

    The rejection by him is what is difficult. The being pushed away when the circumstances should have allowed our relationship to move forward. To actually be together after his wife told him she did not want him

    I do not know what to do. I can tell him that I want him and love him and my feelings for him are as strong as ever, but he still pushes me away.

    I do not think there is anything I can do

    June 3, 2016 at 1:09 pm #106371
    Lorissa
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    Hence the Comment my mind knows I need to cut contact. Does not stop my heart from hurting, since I believed all the times he told me that he had never felt such intense feelings for someone before, or that he felt we belonged together.

    I have never felt this way, had such emotions for someone before

    June 3, 2016 at 10:10 am #106360
    Lorissa
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    Yes, part of it is safety. Although I was willing to leave my relationship to be with him. Our relationship was intense. We seemed to connect on every level which has never happened before.
    I am just struggling with how he could pull back so much, if it is safety. His marriage ends and as you say, there is me. So why then has he pushed me so far away.

    May 23, 2016 at 9:05 pm #105441
    Lorissa
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    I feel your pain Brav3. Unfortunately I have no words of wisdom as I am also just starting this journey. It’s difficult to understand how someone’s feelings could change so quickly. Just know you are not alone, and your feelings are valid.

    Take care

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