No, I clearly told him that I don’t want us to talk anymore. Maybe I really wanted things to work out and for him to give me an assurance. Wishful thinking!
Thanks Mark for your reply. I just feel bad that I wasn’t ever good enough for him. I have seen the way he is around his friends and when he is with me, he is all serious and has nothing to talk about. He did try to take out time for me but at the cost of what? I am scared that I will invest my time in this and he will end it six months down the line.
Before getting back with him, we did discuss about these things and he told me he will work on it. I just thought that maybe he will change a little and give importance to our relationship.
I apologize for the late reply. Treating me poorly means that he would ignore me, often bail on plans to meet, not talk to me and meet me at his convenience. For him his friends are his priority and I never was.
By stability I mean someone who will marry me. Honestly money or his financial status is never a concern for me. Sometimes I feel he is very confused and doesn’t know what he wants. But I know money matters a lot to him and his family. I don’t want to put my energy into this and him coming and telling me later that he won’t marry me because his family is not ready.
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