i broke up with my x of 13yrs in 2009 and in 2009 i met the guy in cam currenlty dating. we have been with one another 4years. when i met him he was married and 1 year later was divorced. he has a son. ive asked him b4 if he wants to get married but after coming out of a bad marriage hes been hessitating. i have severe trust issues. i follow him. i check up on him all to make sure hes not lying or cheating. i havent caught him doing anything. he has soooo many females friends and he is a very social person. but i feel like he isnt serious about me anymore, when we started he showed me SO much affection and loved being around me. it seems now that he is sooo distant and really doesnt care about my feelings. i think he’s so into his friends and just wanting to do his own thing that he doesnt care about what may happen to us.