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  • March 20, 2020 at 10:44 am #344362
    Luli
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    Dear Anita,

    No, I am neither in a relationship with two boyfriends at the same time nor on and off with two boyfriends in a period of time. The guy I talked about in 2017, I got over him completely since then. My current relationship started in December 2017, so now it is for 2 years and 3 months now, I just said it is 3 years given this is our third year. And, yes, he is the same guy he used to yell at me, but, no, he stopped and it is so much better.

    Thank you.

    March 20, 2020 at 9:05 am #344348
    Luli
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    Hi Anita,

    Thank you for your reply. Actually, my old post in 2017 is completely different than the one in March and today, as my boyfriend is different than the one I wrote about in 2017, that I moved on from and I did not like it when I read it again. I tried to delete my old post but didn’t know how. But anyway, I am not an agitated, unhappy and keeps stirring up drama in my relationship. The effort I do is to be always positive when there are reasons not to. Anyway, thank you again and thanks for going through the old posts as such.

    April 4, 2017 at 4:01 am #143565
    Luli
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    I hope the same! 🙂

    April 2, 2017 at 7:31 am #143359
    Luli
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    Thank you JayJay for your helpful answer.

    April 2, 2017 at 3:19 am #143331
    Luli
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    Hi All,

    If I may, I have two questions;

    1- does it make any difference if the period is longer than knowing him for 1.5 months? and;

    2- is it better to give him space without being there until he is ready even he wants you to be there for him when he wants you to be? or to give him the space i.e. not to try or want for more, but keep having a casual relationship in the sense of going out together, sharing daily lives, playing sports etc.. until he decides otherwise (take the move towards a relationship)?!

    Thanks.

    Luli

    April 2, 2017 at 3:05 am #143329
    Luli
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    Hi Anita and Inky,

    Thank you for your answers and helpful advice.

    I agree with what you said. That’s what I am doing right now, not trying or wanting for more.

    Inky; this is actually what I did, I backed off, but he did not allow me to do that, he kept inviting me out and doing things together, he said that he wants me to be happy and he would do anything to let it be and that he does not want me to be away.

    However, I still feel like pulling away myself for a while. To back off. Because I am very tired and exhausted. I want to be fine on my own again.

    Thanks again,

    Luli

    February 28, 2017 at 7:01 am #131657
    Luli
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    Hi again,

    It shows in his eyes and behaviour, and when I asked him to take a break so he would know what he really wants, he refused such break totally! Though, he acts differently sometimes that I feel I am stuck in between.

    When he ignores me and we talk about it, he does not anymore, but because I brought it up, so it’s out of a request.

    What if I discussed the whole thing, the whole relationship, with him, even if the outcome will hurt, but at least everything will be crystal clear, would it be right thing to do? or should I wait and see?!

    Thanks a lot again.

    Luli

    February 28, 2017 at 5:05 am #131629
    Luli
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    Hi Inky,

    Thanks for your reply.

    What do you mean that I am not so much a girlfriend? Is that because he did not say “I love you too”?

    I am not just an admirer, I am a lover! 🙁

    WE share what we don’t share with anyone else. He says that I am the closest to him and he does not like it when I am sad, but he sometimes does what he upsets me.

    I am afraid to drop the rope. I cannot stop loving him, I never did, I kept him in my heart safely and when we got closer, it’s like a locked gate in my heart suddenly opened. What if he did not pick it up?

    Thanks again for discussing the topic.

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