Hi Ashwin
Thank you for your advise. I have indeed put all my present and future to him, you are right. Maybe I havent been happy in my marriage for so long and never really felt love and care until I found him. But I think like you say I will keep re reading your and John message and remind myself all these. When one person is so clouded with emotion, they dont see sense and ultimately becomes confused.
Thank you very much
Sabrina