Hi. Going through unbearable pain. We were together for 12 years. His famiy always hated me without even knowing me a bit just because he was dating me.

I always kept positive though that maybe because i am his girlfriend this is happening. Once they know we are serious things will change.

We stayed together. 4 years ago he asked me to tell my family about us. I did. His elder sisters are not married so his parents didnt want to meet us till that happens. 2 years ago they met but were very cold to me. His mom didnt even talk to me. I still thought that its ok maybe she will be better will me in future once things are sorted. So many years have passed but their cold treatment never changed. And now also they totally said no to marriage till the elder sisters are married. I am 31. I was still willing to wait. My family just wanted a roka atleast. Ofcourse after so many years thats the bare minimum. But they are not willing to budge. I cant deal with my insecurity and my boyfriend just backed out now because he cant give me any timeline for commitment. I am in unbearable pain. He was my life. He was my husband to me. I gave him everything. Worshipped him. And i just dont know what to do or how to deal with this.