Hello Everybody!

So suddenly I happened to log back again and I feel like sharing my mind. I’ve made progress workwise, got promoted and am due another next year so that’s encouraging. On the other hand I am still stuck in the process of divorce waiting for my final hearing. In India, courts are loaded with files waiting to be heard like me. My biggest challenge was to find a lawyer who found my reasons good enough to file for divorce. Most felt that if you are not hit, abused or tortured mentally or physically it’s not a strong case enough. So I found a lady lawyer about my age who seem to do her job right. 2021 i filed for it. 1st hearing date was Feb 2022. Then my 2nd and last hearing date has been delayed, still waiting to be heard and freed. Meanwhile my mother had a fatal accident leading to hip replacement surgery. Mentally it’s been a lot. Court proceedings are extremely slow here. It’s killing my enthusiasm for life. The zeal is being overshadowed. Sometimes I feel as we grow older our challenges grow difficult until we want to give up. Only prayer might be of use then.

Thank you for replying back, Anita. I totally take responsibility for the dumb decision I made about not knowing beforehand which family I was going to marry into. Stupid thing I did. I was so fed up with my father that I wanted to escape somehow and nothing else seemed to bother.However, as mentioned earlier that my husband is posted out of town. I am waiting for him to have a posting back here. I believe it would be difficult to proceed otherwise. But it has been so long and the wait is killing me now. I feel like being stuck. Whenever I bring up divorce he would always put it off the table saying he can’t do that away from home. Its been almost a year like this and this test doesnt really seem to end.

However, thank you for responding and not being judgemental. 🙂