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May 14, 2023 at 8:44 am #418726miaParticipant
Hello hello and thank you for your messages,
Yersterday, after my 3 suspension sessions, I had the right to go back to training. I hesitated a lot and finally I told myself that I had to go back, if only to talk to my coach.
On the way, of course, I came across the 2 friends of the guy I beat. They insulted me right away. Usually, I don’t respond, but this whole story really put me under pressure so I insulted them back. I didn’t want to show them that I could be impressed or that I was going to let them push me around. So, I’m a dirty monkey bitch who needs to go back to her country… I asked them how their friend’s balls were doing and it almost escalated… This time it escalated to death threats. I told them that we could settle this right now at training and that I would take them both, one after the other. Strangely, no response even after calling them cowards. They calmed down a bit and left.
During training, I was with another woman I know well and who is super nice, but I couldn’t concentrate with the two other idiots in the same room. Honestly, I had only one desire and that was to sort them out fairly, but of course, that didn’t happen. After the session, I went to see the coach to tell him about today’s incident, that I was considering filing a complaint for harassment, and I clearly asked him to do something. He got angry, telling me not to make a fuss, that it was in my interest since it was me who hit him when he was injured on the ground… Anyway, I understood that I would never set foot in this club again.
My training partner drove me home. She confessed that since the incident, the club was a bit divided into 2 groups between the women who support me and the men who find my behavior unacceptable… obviously I don’t have the majority…Initially, I didn’t sign up for taekwondo to learn self-defense, but for the sports challenge. I did gymnastics at a good level and taekwondo appealed to me, but it’s over for me. I don’t have any other clubs near my home and there isn’t much choice for other martial arts.
So, that’s it, a little sad but I’m okay
May 1, 2023 at 7:40 am #418020miaParticipantHello Roberta and thanks for your answer,
Yes, I’ve made a report on police but to be honest, the policeman seems to not taking it seriously so I don’t think they ‘ll do that much.
To be honest, I hate this place but my family is here for profesionals reasons and unfortunatly, I can’t really move, even if I would love to live somewhere else.
I was also really surprised by the coach decision. After the incident, I told him what happened but basicaly, he did blame me for using illegal moves. He was mad that I did kick him while he was still on the floor
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