After reading your reply, I wrote a 3 page letter which describes how I felt from the beginning of our relationship, through our first major fight and how I made the first big assumption and how my mind skewed the truth to win the battle of egos and how all the negative thoughts ruined our marriage. I’m going to give it to my dad’s girlfriend since they speak fairly often and because I’m talking with her in between counseling sessions because she is impartial to the situation. I’ll let her read it and give me her opinion on when to have my ex read it.

After four years of fighting and her trying to make things work, do you think there’s still a chance? She says she doesn’t love me anymore which burns like fire, and she wants to move on with her life. If this were your situation, would you keep fighting for her even though there will be a lot of hurt involved?