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  • September 6, 2017 at 12:36 am in reply to: Stucked and Panicked #167286
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    HI Eliana, I feel I cannot let go and I am becoming attached to him, that somehow I feel he is not the right person (because he does not give me full attention or he is not similar to me). I am scared of ending up like my marriage that I stayed too long , going into depression. I have this panic feeling when talking about moving forward and plan future meetings.. I am good with him only if I am fine with myself and totally calm, but only for limited time. I never know when enough is enough or when I can take it.. so confused and stressed

    September 5, 2017 at 12:07 am in reply to: Stucked and Panicked #166966
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    Hi and thank you! I am getting to know him but I have this gut feeling he is not right for me.. but in reality i have good time with him and i felt really confortable and i like him.. im just frustrated because i have been co dependency relation with my husband and fear that this is becoming the same thing. yes i spoke with him about it and he said we can go slowly , but i feel the urgency to decide because i am not feeling well at all and because i am becoming dependent on him ( i like him).. dont know if ishould listen to my gut feeling or it is only ‘old believes and fears’.. im really blocked adn keep on going from one side to the other

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