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  • in reply to: Guilty Conscience #64299
    Mmm Bacon
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    This is a very dangerous situation. This guy will only continue to escalate. I am afraid for you and your family if you do not get him out of there. And where the hell is your husband in all of this? Shouldn’t he be protecting you from this abuse? Get this abusive free-loader out of your home and do not hesitate to get a restraining order if his threats of violence continue. This man is a classic abuser and he eventually will make good on these threats. Please take care of yourself.

    in reply to: Will I never learn to love myself? #64292
    Mmm Bacon
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    Eve,

    I cannot help but sympathize with your struggle. Learning to love myself has been (and continues to be) a lifelong process. What I do know is that it starts with learning to adjust your inner monologue. Stop criticizing yourself. Stop comparing yourself to your supposed “prettier friends”. I would recommend exploring the technique of mindfulness and then learning to use it everyday.

    Also, take some time to “date” yourself. Rediscover what makes you feel good about yourself. Try and focus on what you like about yourself. Be grateful for the things you do have. And take part in activities that bring you joy.

    It seems to me you are an intelligent, thoughtful young woman. It would be a shame to waste the rest of your life trying to fix something that ain’t broke! Good luck and take care.

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