hi…so true.
other thing i found is “expectations” …
how expectations can create distances…ur friend wants u to be full time story telling…n complains if u dont share something wrong…where u dont thing if something is wrong. or sometimes people try to solve their own problems and does not need constant “status update” to anyone; coz they r no-where inn life. n somehow distances r increased.
i think many of us face the same problem “no-close frnz” but we should also seek “why” over here.
as @miniaturebodhisatva told… we r in life crisis…. where we r finding our careers , marriage, sttelement…
n other people mi8 be on pg 60 or 100 n we r still on 20….
so tht is another reason in my case…
though we talk… but there is lack of bonding.
yesterday only i was in tears remembering old days with my bestie… hez now married. but he was more a knda girldfriend i would need.
tension free sharing… fun loving ideas…n adventures together.
i think when we ll be in some stable phase of life.. we might get a good frn again.
n if u want…we can be frnzz too 🙂
we share our tiny buddha together 😉
cheers.