I believe before you can begin to change you must first accept. It is a part of who you are. You need to embrace yourself fully, with no holds barred. Love yourself and your imperfections because no matter how much you try and fix yourself you are still you. And that OK and good. True growth comes after you are fully embracing who you are naturally. It’s hard to say this because we live in such a driven world. When you let go and give up trying to fix yourself you actually fix yourself. In embracing yourself you are giving you the forgiveness that you need. You can’t ignore who you are, you can’t stand in the way of who you are, and you can’t force yourself to change yourself. And that’s OK because we are all perfectly imperfect. Again once you embrace your soul and truly love yourself, those things naturally correct themselves IF they need to be corrected!