Hi Big Blue,
Thank you for your post. It’s great that you can walk out of workaholic things. I’m happy for you. As I know, before me he was like that. He broke up with his ex because they couldn’t make time together( I guess it was the same problem ).I thought I could change him a bit but I was wrong. It’s clearly his choice, may be because I still love him that I feel sympathy for his life style. I know that all I can do is to let him know his trouble, but I don’t expect more than that :). I do accept the move on and I’m happy that I can find the advice here.
Best wishes