I suggest to be comfortable with yourself. Learn who you are. Learn what you like and don’t like. Be accepting of who you are. Everyone is beautiful and important in their own way. Once you are comfortable with who you are you won’t worry what others think, as long as you’re content with your decisions and actions. I think the uncertainty comes from not knowing yourself.

I suppose the only way to know yourself is to spend time doing things you like. Spend time alone. Work on a personal project or hobby. Find your interests.

As for another partner, that will come in time. When you are comfortable with yourself you will naturally attract the perfect person for you at the time.

Good work on getting the divorce!