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  • #42078
    Tamara
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    Thank you so much for starting this topic Jacques!

    Just like you, it gives me courage as well to know that there are other people like me out there. It makes me feel better, because as you know it’s tough being the way you are and constantly believing that there’s something wrong with you. I am so so happy to read your posts, they do make my heart warm so much! So thank you ^_^
    For me, the biggest issue in life is my self esteem. When you go through certain battles in your life and you make it through, you certainly don’t go out undamaged. For me that damage has been so big that I always always feel that people will look down on me or not accept me. :/ as you mentioned in your previous posts my journey is also a loners one meaning that my friends and family don’t think the way I do which makes it even harder for me.
    And my whole life I’ve been encouraged to change instead of embracing who I really am. The moment when you stop behaving the way everybody else does, you become weird, and there is definitely something wrong with you. I regret every moment of my life that I’ve spent believing this, because there’s not one bit of truth in that.
    It’s always been easier for people to judge you rather than understand you, but that’s what makes weak people feel good about themselves.

    Sometimes I believe we are already living out our purpose without even realizing it or knowing what it is. And I firmly believe that not knowing what your purpose is doesn’t mean you don’t have any. I’m sure I’m already living my purpose even though I can’t quite put my finger on it just yet.
    I know the theory, being yourself makes you free and inspires others and there’s no greater good than that, but putting it into practice is the tricky part. You certainly make it easier, so once again thank you for every word you’ve written as it means a lot to a young girl at the end of the world 🙂

    I’m not a victim, I’m a survivor 😉

    Hugs ^_^

    #42073
    Tamara
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    Dearest Nicole,

    I love you for saying this and for saying exactly the way you said it!

    Sometimes I am tricked into believing that there’s something wrong with me because I just do not fit in!
    But I forget that everyone fits in perfectly well just the way they are. The world was designed to be colorful and our differences produce magic.
    Thanks for reminding me.

    “I call this being alive, and having creative genius: that is, an imagination, a longing for something greater than what one sees in everyday life. ” – thank you for this! Perfect sentence in a perfect moment!

    I adore you Nicole!
    Thanks a million

    #42072
    Tamara
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    Darling, you don’t have to worry about a thing. When I read your post it’s like I was reading my own, a few years back (I’m now 20).
    The only thing you can do now is just lay back and enjoy every day as it comes without thinking what your purpose is. The more you think the less you’ll know. The only way you can find your purpose is by feeling more and thinking less. Let yourself go, follow your instincts and always do things you enjoy in the way you enjoy 🙂 Even if you stand alone. As Nicole said Being an individual takes courage. But it’s worth it! If you blend in with everyone else and do and think in the way society thinks is acceptable you will only lose yourself and come to a point of desperation. Be who you are and be brave. That way you will find magic in your daily life.
    You were blessed to be an individual, you just have to become aware of your powers and use them. Trust me lots of fun is awaiting you <3

    Being an individual takes courage but you will never be an individual for too long. Once you come in touch with your inner self you will start attracting the right people into your life 😉

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